我们不了解自己，何以教养孩子?自己没有半点艺术细胞，却期望孩子能够多才多艺。自己暴躁、脾气大，却焦虑孩子大吼大叫摔东西。不善交际不喜热闹，却总想把孩子往人堆里推。对自己要求高，也把这一份压力施加到孩子身上，不管孩子能否承受。

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